Good on you LMS, you've got the ball rolling. Taking the first step is the hardest thing to do and you've done it. You're very brave and should feel good about taking control of this situation.

From here on it's just one step after another. Only focus on the one ahead of you, don't let this overwhelm you. Also, I would expect that My Budget should be able to give you advice on things like maximising your Family Assistance payments, accessing your super etc. If they can't, or they don't, It is really worth contacting the Salvo's (or whoever) to get some financial counselling. They should be able to tell you exactly what you can and can't do in these area's and help you along way.

Once again, you've done a huge thing today. Don't be too hard on yourself or let overwhelm you. You can and will get through this.